The Single Column Tie
In this unit we will look at the most elementary tie in Shibari, the first tie you should learn; the tie that virtually all other ties are based off.
In this unit we will look at the most elementary tie in Shibari, the first tie you should learn; the tie that virtually all other ties are based off.
Personally, I teach the Burlington Bowline as the first single column tie when I run introduction classes
“Why the Burlington?” – there are many reasons:
Below you will find a more detailed breakdown of all of the individual steps in the Burlington bowline with explanations and helpful hints next to each picture
All Shibari starts from the middle of a doubled over piece of rope. We call this the ‘bight’.
Lay the bight over the top of your partners wrist/ankle (or your own leg, with your ankle resting on your opposite knee when sitting in a chair).
The bight would be going away from you and the “working end” (the long length of extra rope you’ve not yet gotten to) should be behind you and to your left
As an aside, reverse all right and left instructions if you happen to be left handed.
Note that here I am pinching the rope with my two first fingers and thumb. This is very important and you should copy it exactly.
The two fingers under the rope (and resting on your partners wrist) create space for the tie that you will need later.
The pinch also creates tension in the line, which keeps things neat.
Anyway, reach under your partners wrist and grab the bight, pull this around your partners wrist and let extra rope slide through your pinch grip.
We now need to ‘pay out’ more rope to make the bight longer.
Keep your right hand pinching the bight, you should have constant tension on this rope. Not enough to tighten in to your partners skin, just enough to keep the rope straight.
Loosen your pinch grip on the bands, and slip your fingers around and ‘under’ your partners column like shown here…
Very important here, learn this and get into the habit of doing this at all costs; always pull rope through, never push.
Here you want the bight to be pulled under the bands from left to right (not pushed). Second important point; when you pass your finger under rope that you want to pull rope around, push your finger all the way under. Do not be shy and only push your fingertips under the rope; go all the way to your knuckles.
I don’t show myself using my fingers this deeply here because these photos are aspirational; eventually you will be so fluid you will know how to move your fingers so that you only need a small part of your finger to pass through the bands. For now however – go deep.
I can’t stress this enough; never push, always pull.
This will make you faster, more fluid, more accurate, and able to connect with your partner better.
This might sound like a rubbish claim, but your fingers are more dexterous, stiffer, and have more feeling than does the end of a piece of rope you’re trying to ‘thread the needle’ with.
Do your best to get into the habit of keeping tension on the bight rope.
Pass the length to your fingers. Do not grab the very end of the bight; you do not need to ‘thread-the-needle’ by passing the end of the bight through the loop (see previous rant about pulling through, rather than pushing through).
Keeping tension on the bight rope will help form the knot more cleanly.
‘Threading-the-needle’ will mean that you loose tension, and it is also an unnecessarily complicated action.
In Shibari we do not ‘tighten’ knots; we do not use knots that will ‘tighten’, as we use non-collapsing knots. We will frequently ‘compact’ knot (and ‘frictions’) however. Feel how spongey the ‘knot’ (loop and turns through the loop) of a loosely tied Burlington Bowline feel.
Work through the following section and repeat this test of ‘sponginess’, the knot should now feel much firmer.
Final notes on single column ties – Remember the Burlington bowline, remember there are many S.C.T’s, the Burlington bowline is just the one I learned and prefer to teach because it is fairly fault tolerant. If you make an error, it won’t roll or fail as easily as some other S.C.T’s might.
Some others require that they be set up the correct way for the direction you wish to pull them in, otherwise they will roll and fail in a potentially dangerous manner.